"she opens her eyes and off we go.... it's like when you're on a roller coaster and you're at the top waiting for the release (that is me asleep in my bed) then whoosh her eyes open and here we go loop after nauseating, head jerking, migraine making, loop until slam the ride stops and she is asleep again (16 hours later). I need help...."
Wow can you feel it parents? Can you relate?
Well, its time to "get off the merry-go-round" or in this case the roller coaster!
The little one described in the above Help letter is around 3 yrs old. She is unleashed energy. Non stop...
So where do we begin?
Put on the breaks!
Start once again to build the walls of discipline and consistency.
First of all You MUST BE RESTED to take on this whirlwind....
You will lose it otherwise and be "under" before you know it!
Second think about and lay the "rules"
1. When do they get up? and how? and what do they do when they do wake up?
2. Whats next on the list... breakfast? get them ready for the day? Now don't give up yet....its only 8:30 am!
3 Wear them out! let them play outside...is there a McDonald's play yard near by? Are there other children that they can play with? YOU structure the day NOT the other way around
4. Lunch: make them sit down and eat... wash them up....read them a book and tuck them in for a nap!
Ya you say You have no idea!!! Well believe it or not I DO
But You need to be the boss.... " Honey you are going to lay down for at least an hour"....darken the room shut the door....
Now do I expect this to happen easily? The first time? Unlikely... But stick to your plan! The first few days will be hardest. But you must win whatever way that you can! ( you may have to rearrange your schedule to make this happen .... naps need to be a priority and a habit.)
Don't give up! You are laying the foundation! Does the builder just ignore the bricks that are crumbling from the wall because he is tired or just does not want to do the job over again?
Remember the child's WHOLE LIFE is being built on these foundational principles!
Win....This WILL NOT last forever Unless, in fact, you ignore the issue and hope that it goes away....it won't
small problems will become big problems ! Do your self a favor and tend to business Deep breath now parents!
I had a week of cousin camp this summer 5 of the grandchildren came for 7 days of fun! The ages were 3,4,6,8,8 IT went soooo smoothly no major incidents they ate, they slept, they played.**** They did not fight . They did not have to be punished. I did not have to call any parents.....WHY? Well, first of all, I had a schedule planned from first thing to last thing...meals were planned, outings were planned, crafts were planned....I had thought it through and all I had to do then was execute the plan!
Well there are some hints in that paragraph! Plan Plan Plan She who flies from the seat of her pants usually wears out before she finishes!
Keep looking up The Bible says: I look to the hills from which my help comes.... Kind of like looking out the window in the morning for the yellow school bus!
Blessings
Marnie
Wow can you feel it parents? Can you relate?
Well, its time to "get off the merry-go-round" or in this case the roller coaster!
The little one described in the above Help letter is around 3 yrs old. She is unleashed energy. Non stop...
So where do we begin?
Put on the breaks!
Start once again to build the walls of discipline and consistency.
First of all You MUST BE RESTED to take on this whirlwind....
You will lose it otherwise and be "under" before you know it!
Second think about and lay the "rules"
1. When do they get up? and how? and what do they do when they do wake up?
2. Whats next on the list... breakfast? get them ready for the day? Now don't give up yet....its only 8:30 am!
3 Wear them out! let them play outside...is there a McDonald's play yard near by? Are there other children that they can play with? YOU structure the day NOT the other way around
4. Lunch: make them sit down and eat... wash them up....read them a book and tuck them in for a nap!
Ya you say You have no idea!!! Well believe it or not I DO
But You need to be the boss.... " Honey you are going to lay down for at least an hour"....darken the room shut the door....
Now do I expect this to happen easily? The first time? Unlikely... But stick to your plan! The first few days will be hardest. But you must win whatever way that you can! ( you may have to rearrange your schedule to make this happen .... naps need to be a priority and a habit.)
Don't give up! You are laying the foundation! Does the builder just ignore the bricks that are crumbling from the wall because he is tired or just does not want to do the job over again?
Remember the child's WHOLE LIFE is being built on these foundational principles!
Win....This WILL NOT last forever Unless, in fact, you ignore the issue and hope that it goes away....it won't
small problems will become big problems ! Do your self a favor and tend to business Deep breath now parents!
I had a week of cousin camp this summer 5 of the grandchildren came for 7 days of fun! The ages were 3,4,6,8,8 IT went soooo smoothly no major incidents they ate, they slept, they played.**** They did not fight . They did not have to be punished. I did not have to call any parents.....WHY? Well, first of all, I had a schedule planned from first thing to last thing...meals were planned, outings were planned, crafts were planned....I had thought it through and all I had to do then was execute the plan!
Well there are some hints in that paragraph! Plan Plan Plan She who flies from the seat of her pants usually wears out before she finishes!
Keep looking up The Bible says: I look to the hills from which my help comes.... Kind of like looking out the window in the morning for the yellow school bus!
Blessings
Marnie
**** this year we celebrated our 4th annual cousin camp!
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