Why is it? Instead of taking action we just talk louder. Sammy does not come when called and we start to escalate. Get up my friend and tend to business. If you will decide to "pull in the reins" (last weeks blog) you will immediately get up and mean what you say.
Our children are not stupid. That is why they are acting the way that they are! They know that they do not need to come when called, pick up the toys, go brush their teeth etc. They wait until they hear a certain tone of voice and THEN they move.
Well surprise them! Don't give them a second or third chance. When they find themselves on their bed, losing privileges , going to bed early etc, believe me, they will respond quickly.
No need to lose your temper. No need to yell and scream. No need to threaten or throw a tantrum! Just say what you mean and
MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!
You CAN do this!
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