Have you ever had someone come for a visit and before you know it their little one is nowhere in sight?
Mom does not seem to be concerned. The two five year olds are playing in the playroom but 2 year old Johnny is just "roaming".
The question is...Should there be "roaming charges?
If Johnny breaks something, destroys something, tears something apart...who's responsibility is whose?
Parents.
If you are visiting someone (esp. outside of your family) please do not assume that they are going to have sippy cups, diapers, baby food, binkys, bibs etc etc. The child is YOUR responsibility so travel prepared. Today pack a bag that you can grab that already has a change of clothes plus the things I just mentioned. Include a book or small toy in case you find your self in a spot where he needs to be entertained. It is unfair to expect your host to have all the paraphernalia that you need, and it can put them in an awkward position.
If you have a toddler that will not have a playmate, come prepared for the time that you will be visiting. I totally realize that there may be little actual visiting going on with your active child present...but oh well it is a phase that will not last forever. I found it often just better to be the host home. My children already knew what they could and couldn't do, I had what I needed for nap time etc. and actually enjoyed the visit with my friend as well.
So if Johnny breaks something ~ be prepared to pay for it or replace it. If your friend says "Oh, don't worry about it" Realize that she had the object for a reason before you came. It may have been a gift, an heirloom or even a yard-salers delight. It really does not matter whether it's worth was $2.00 or $200.00 they were not expecting it to be broken..
Bottom line YOUR CHILD = YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.
Please take this to heart and prepare to be a Parent!
Blessings!
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